tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5127055213789219982.post1361615267640258113..comments2013-07-16T20:15:58.398-07:00Comments on A moment in our arms, forever in our hearts!: I have no faith in myselfPaulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07540268761128502269noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5127055213789219982.post-81626200300890412052012-07-15T16:51:07.761-07:002012-07-15T16:51:07.761-07:00I am right here with you on this... I had very lit...I am right here with you on this... I had very little confidence to start with after what happened to Seamus, and after all the issues that Hugo has had, what little I had has gone out the window. <br /><br />We had VERY similar issues with Hugo about sleeping - we would take it in shifts to cat nap, sitting up with him on our chests, because he WOULD NOT lie in his crib. Then, he was diagnosed with silent reflux, and suddenly his refusal to lie flat made sense. We have him sleeping on a special wedge now, and he goes into his bed easily. By the time we got this diagnosis however, I had grown as fond of him sleeping on me, as he was. I miss that. But like you, I fear SIDS too much to continue (plus, I HAVE to sleep properly at some point).<br /><br />I had wondered before Hugo arrived, how what happened would affect my parenting... I guess this is just one of many ways. it makes me sad though that our instincts are stifled because of the fear. <br /><br />And for what it's worth, I totally agree with you - hold your lovely baby as often and as much as you like. I have a sling that I carry Hugo about in as I love to have him close.Aoifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09002790029609631639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5127055213789219982.post-89787855683456493572012-07-03T08:59:27.607-07:002012-07-03T08:59:27.607-07:00I feel I will be the same as you and not sleeping....I feel I will be the same as you and not sleeping. We watched Jack round the clock until his surgery, sleep was not an option and even though it wont be required that I watch Severus every minute, I think I will feel compelled to do so. I hope you do get some sleep soon.xomichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07960223886511130664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5127055213789219982.post-51598073736847702112012-07-02T22:34:27.369-07:002012-07-02T22:34:27.369-07:00oh Honey, I'm sorry things are so hard right n...oh Honey, I'm sorry things are so hard right now. It's so hard to trust again. I put all my babies to sleep on their tummies but I'm not sure if I'd be able to do it again. I hope that, as time passes, you will sleep again.<br />love, EmEmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5127055213789219982.post-91475467610804440622012-07-02T14:47:51.422-07:002012-07-02T14:47:51.422-07:00Oh Paula. I really feel for you. I've struggle...Oh Paula. I really feel for you. I've struggled with many of these issues with both my living children, that horrible uncertainty and lack of faith. I hate that saying, mother knows best, because I didn't even know my own daughter was so ill. Hope you get some rest xCatherine Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01618295389400457254noreply@blogger.com